Nourishing and healing existing friendships, or finding new ones. With these friendship spells, we are going to learn how to practice all things friendship to finally have what we want and need. Let’s begin.
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A witchy reminder
Before we start, however, we must make an important consideration. It is true, as you will see, that there are several spells related to friendships in magic, however, it would be a serious mistake to consider that most friendships work only thanks to the power of magic.
Magic can help us make the characteristics that make a harmonious relationship more propitious, but it will be more important to cultivate other values such as respect and loyalty. Spells for friendship can be very useful, but it is essential that they are not performed with the aim of transforming a bad friend into a good friend. The truth is that there is no discipline (scientific or magical) that can replace the essence of a person.
To further clarify, spells below will help to propitiate certain circumstances that can, in general, establish a bond between friends. Nothing more than that.
As expected, we will begin by trying to understand what friendship means in magic.
When someone is looking for a friend, they are looking for a person to complete themselves with, and therefore someone who, in a certain sense, can give us what we would never have alone.
If we are sad, a friend gives us support and encourages us, if we are confused, he/she will be able to give us the advice to improve. Two people meet emotionally (as friends) because they know that their union makes them stronger.
Thus, always according to the magical vision, having friends is equivalent to maintaining a relationship of healthy energy exchange. Magic (which refers here to a number of other non-scientific disciplines) regards relationships between people as an essential act of energy exchange.
In friendship, if things work well, it’s about giving your energy to others and, consequently, being ready to receive it.
Spells that may also help:
6 Powerful Forgiveness Spells and Rituals [For Yourself Or Others]
A List of Powerful & Free Reconciliation Spells [Safe Magick]
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My favorite 5 friendship spells
New friendships attraction spell
This spell is great to be open and ready to attract new friends into your life.
Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly
Effectiveness: 3/5
Things you need
- A yellow candle
- A sheet of paper
- A red marker
How it’s done
Write with the red marker on the sheet of parchment paper all the qualities that you would like your ideal friend to have through simple adjectives. For example sincere, loyal, understanding, affectionate, etc.
Light the yellow candle.
Burn the sheet of parchment paper with the candle flame while reciting this magic formula:
“With my heart and mind I now speak. Bring what I’m looking for to me. Let this leaflet be your guide and bring a good friend by my side.
Leave solitude outside the astral gates of my life. This is what I want. Just a good friend. “
Let the candle burn out.
Kuan Yin friendship spell
You should cast this spell if you want to heal a friendship following a fight or disagreement.
After performing it, call your friend and invite him/her to go out on a Saturday or Sunday.
Difficulty: Advanced
Effectiveness: 4/5
Things you need
- Lavender shower gel
- A pink candle
- Pure vanilla extract
- A sunflower or an object that represents it
- A pink pen
- A piece of parchment
How it’s done
Start by relaxing with a nice hot shower and lavender shower gel and while you are cleaning yourself imagine washing away the wounds and anger towards your friend.
Dry off and head to the room prepared for the ritual, obviously without getting dressed first to symbolize your willingness to resolve the conflict. Relax further and focus on your goal.
Light the candle after greasing it with vanilla extract. Invoke the goddess Kuan Yin to give you energy and pray to her:
“Kuan Yin, the goddess of affections, watches over me tonight in an attempt to regain friendship with (person’s name). Please help us to recover a peaceful and joyful relationship.”
Bring to mind the good times spent with your friend and when you feel the feelings of joy and affection grow inside you, write down everything you like about your friend.
Once finished, read aloud what you have written holding the sunflower in your hand and then repeat the following words:
“Kuan Yin, lady of friendship, charge this flower with your divine energy”. Then place it on the parchment.
Once the operation is over, thank the goddess by praying:
“Kuan Yin, thank you for giving your help in the success of my goal. I thank you for what you want to grant me. Stay if you want, go if you have to. I will leave you, be blessed.”
Let the candle burn out and give the flower to your friend as soon as you see them.
A spell for getting a new friend
This is a spell that, although not widely known, is easy to perform and also very effective.
The combination of water and earth elements allows the fusion of essences that, although different, are complementary.
Water is not the earth and the earth is not water, but in any case, they need each other; as soon as the water is on Earth (planet Earth), there is only the earth passing through the water (rain). In the same way, friends need each other.
Fire serves as an element of cohesion of awareness, which illuminates during the union of essences.
Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly
Effectiveness: 4/5
Things you need
- Two glasses full of water
- A little clean earth
- A pink candle
How it’s done
The procedure is very simple. First, it is necessary to meet the person with whom you want to perform the spell; then you have to light the candle.
In light of the small flame, you have to take the earth and put it in the two glasses of water.
Finally, you should drink the water (which contains a little soil), paying attention to the fire. “Friends” must drink at the same time. That’s all.
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A separation spell for toxic friends
This is a very ancient ritual and has its origins in Mexican popular magic. This tool is very simple to implement and is used to move away from a loved one, a partner, or a friendship that could turn into something more, or a frequentation.
It can be used for a relationship between a man and a woman but is not good for man and man relationship. if for example, we wanted to remove our loved one from a friend we don’t like, but from a friend yes .. here, to understand each other.
We talked a lot about salt on this blog in various articles; salt is a natural and indispensable element for us witches.
Salt, in fact, serves to tighten relationships, and, in this case, lemon will help not only to “remove sweetness from the relationship” but also to have it definitively cut off.
The results are visible fairly quickly.
Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly
Effectiveness: 4/5
Things you need
- 1 lemon of any type (large)
- Two strips of white paper with the names of people written in pencil
- Coarse salt
How it’s done
Cut the lemon across, insert the names inside, and, putting enough salt on it, you will say:
“Just as the salt is falling apart, the friendship of (………) and (……) breaks down.”
Leave the lemon in a hidden place for 7 days and then throw it in a sewer.
Calm after the storm friendship spell
It happens to everyone to argue with a close friend, and for this reason, we may end up losing a much-needed friendship.
This ritual serves precisely to recover the lost relationship. Attention, it is not a ritual to recover love, but only an important friendship.
The best time to do this is during a waxing moon.
Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly
Effectiveness: 4/5
Things you need
- 5 pink rose petals
- 5 white rose petals
- Sea salt
- Paper and pen
How it’s done
On the sheet of paper, write your name and surname plus that of your friend. Put salt and rose petals on the top of the sheet.
Breathe in deeply as you remember all the best moments you spent together and the important things you shared. Try to retrace and feel those sensations. When you are ready, let the air out and put your index finger on the sheet, trying to feel the energy of those beautiful moments that flow inside your body; your finger will act as a conductor.
Meanwhile, repeat the following formula:
I invoke you, O Domain, angel of friendship,
I humbly ask you to meet us again
Guide (your friend’s name) to return to me.
Rekindle our friendship,
for the greater good.
So be it!
Fold the sheet over itself several times and bury it at the foot of an old tree.
