A break-up spell is a ritual that must be used only when it is considered to be the best thing for two people or for couples who wish to separate.
This kind of ritual is very dangerous, and it is crucial that you are aware of what you are doing. They’re so called manipulation rituals, which interfere with the free will of others.
However, every rule has its exceptions. These rituals below can be useful when you want to remove an unwanted person from your life, or to counter someone who has done a curse on you by bringing to yourself the person you love. It can also be used to remove a person who has lived with you and knows your flaws and weaknesses.
Let’s see now how to cast a spell to break up a couple.
A NOTE: this article was recently updated. I added new pictures, new ingredients that could replace the original ones (in case you can’t get them), and I also added additional explanation.
- Did You Know?
- Introduction to Break Up Spells
- How to Prepare a Casting place for Powerful Break Up Spells?
- How to Chant a Break Up Spell?
- Totems and Sigils For a Spell to Break Up a Couple
- How to Make a Voodoo Doll for Break Up Spells?
- 7 Powerful Break Up Spells That Work Immediately
- Final ThoughtsSeparating two people using semi-benign methods (they are never totally benign) is much more complicated, requires many sessions, and constant observation of how the situation evolves.
Did You Know?
I was honored when I was recently asked by Court TV producers to consult on a case.
You can view the clip below. This case is a great example of why I do not cast any spells that have harmful intentions. As a Professional Spellcaster, I work with clients from all over the world and it’s important to me to remain grounded and stay ‘in the light’ so that I can help as many people as possible.
Casting your own magic spells takes skill and patience and isn’t recommended in most cases. I provide these “do it yourself” spells for educational purposes, but it is strongly recommended that you consult an experienced spell caster such as myself and allow me to do the work for you.
This way you know it’s being done by someone experienced and knowledgeable and I’m also always here to answer questions about your casting and provide follow-up at no additional charge.
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Introduction to Break Up Spells
The separation rites (break-up spells) known as engagement and marriage breaks are rituals designed to remove two engaged, married, or cohabiting persons, or the lover of the husband/wife. However, I would like to point out that the only bonds that can be broken are those linked by passion and not by true love.
Why? Because when two souls are truly connected, when two people are soulmates it’s written in the stars and the universe would do everything it can to let them be together forever. So, if you try to separate two soulmates, two people who are meant to be together, most likely your break up spell won’t manifest. If otherwise, you know that two people are together but their union is created on a passion, on a merely physical connection and true love is not in the picture, a breakup spell can definitely be the right option for you.
But, I want to explain myself better because I see that there is a lot of confusion about this topic.
We must distinguish two types of bonds: the passionate one and the sentimental one.
“Isn’t this the same thing? Do you know the difference?”
Well no, sometimes there are both but often only the first one. We say that in the beginning, passion springs from the senses, from the physical attraction, and is the prime mover for two people to unite.
Without it, there can be nothing else, so it is necessary, but subsequently knowing the couple begins to participate in the life of relationship of the other and therefore begins to share the life of each other, and it is at this point that the initially passionate union gives way to the more interior sentimental one until it becomes Love.
People often confuse each other; the first one is sensual, that is, linked to the senses and is also very strong, it does not make you sleep, it takes your breath away, it makes your heart beat wildly.
All physiological symptoms of the process are revealed primarily in the first days and last up to a few years – usually from 3 to 5 years.
In fact, from experience, the most significant part of cohabitation is interrupted over a period of time ranging from 3 to 6 years at the most, and as proof, you’ve all probably heard someone saying: you know dear / or I love you so much, but I don’t love you as much as I once did.
The second one is sentimental, linked to feelings and by feelings, I don’t mean the emotions that the two feel when they are together, but the Love that comes from the soul. This generates a kind of love that can get through storms, challenges, and times and it only gets stronger and deeper.
How do you know if you are bound by passion or true love?
The first one is of instinctual and material bodily origin and is part of the instincts of the body that are under the influence of the stars and governed by them.
The second one is linked to the soul and is of Divine nature and not subject to bodily influence and even less to the stars and therefore no one can separate what God who is linked to the Soul has united, but be assured that there are one of these unions on 200.
There is a very simple test: if when your partner is ill, he or she suffers, and if you feel like crying then it is Love.
We say that this indissoluble union is possible that is created only if the couple that has formed is under the perfect astrological and energetic profile or with a high degree of perfection because otherwise they cannot communicate inwardly in-depth and the couple lives only of the fuel of passion which is marked by the stars over time.
How to Prepare a Casting place for Powerful Break Up Spells?
Your casting spell place should be a calm, quiet place, and you should not have any interference such as your phone ringing or someone talking to you. It’s like a meditative place where you need to focus and commit.
Your commitment to the practice is the most important things of them all. You cannot start casting a break up spell if you are not in tune with your intention and if you don’t truly feel what you want arising from within. Not having a firm-fixed intention is one of the most frequent reasons why a spell doesn’t work and doesn’t manifest. Why does this happen? Because we are too angry, too confused, or too “all over the places”, especially when we are dealing with a broken heart. Clearing your mind and knowing what you truly want is mandatory to let the energy flow and let your break up spell be a successful one.
Once you have your intention set and your mind truly committed to your practice and ready to cast the spell, then you only need a few ingredients like a candle, a piece of paper, a pen, and an item reminding you of the person you want to separate from. Of course, these are starting points but there are many different spells with many different ingredients you can try, and don’t forget that magick has its nuances and you can explore them all to find your own!
Let’s get into details (advanced reading)
Passionate love can be interrupted with rituals that produce a type of cooling that produces the stars like Saturn when they come into appearance.
Break up spells that work immediately are usually performed on Saturdays, while some of the kabbalistic origin Solomonic Magic spells are performed on Fridays – in both cases in the waning moon. There’s an astrological reason behind this.
Initially, adopters of the Voodoo Rites did not take into account the lunar phase and the day (Monday, Tuesday, etc.), but with the advent of astrological knowledge, they stopped ignoring it.
In fact, in Magic Solomonic and in general, in the magic of kabbalistic origin, not only the day and the moon phase are taken into account, but also the magic hour.
While in Voodoo, a day of the moon phase is taken into account, and at most it indicates the time (morning afternoon, after sunset or midnight).
As the growing light propitiates and vitalizes what must begin, the light at the apex that at the meridian favors the full development of what is already in place, in the evening after sunset the waning light favors the departures and separations, and at night all the evil rites depicting darkness.
Only in some cases in Voodoo and derivatives are used at night for positive rituals and for the reasons that the night leads the Soul to be more receptive, and therefore more influential.
Therefore the waning Moon has such an influence that it helps the separation to separate two people and the distances and therefore it is the phase used for the rites of separation breaking marriages and engagements.
Let’s take a closer look at the types of rituals and other differences.
The rituals of separation are therefore of two types fundamentally: those linked to the primary forces of nature which are the forces that create instincts in nature: such as the Quimbanda which is a branch of Macumba where the Exus are invoked as Pompagira.
Quimbanda: The Cult of the Red and Black Flame explains that these exus are linked to the primary terrestrial forces, and the Voodoo (voudon) that is linked to the Loas with the difference that some are like the Exu of the Quimbanda but with different names, others are the souls of the dead.
This ritual is very powerful as it is connected to the strong evil Egregores and can create some disharmony even in the unions, the strong ones linked by Love, but to the latter, they can only cause only some disharmony, while to passionate loves the real breaks.
Here’s an interesting book that explains everything – Egregores: The Occult Entities That Watch Over Human Destiny.
How to Chant a Break Up Spell?
The spell puts the caster and the recipient in close contact, the latter is “subjected” to the charm of the spell. It can be aimed at a person, an object, a divinity or a spirit, a natural phenomenon or an abstract concept.
Did you know that in ancient times a spell meant to sing a song? Poetry in music is the maximum expression of the power of words. Let’s think about how an audience is enchanted by listening to a musician. This is the power of the spell: capture the designated object and change its behavior.
What distinguishes a chant from the common discourse?
The spells are composed according to ancient rules and are often intelligible or have an effect even though the person does not know the language in which the poem is composed. We also think of all those formulas that are invalid when we pronounce them translated.
In composing spells and sacred poems, we must adhere to rules exactly as in poetic writing, music, drawing, and magic. For example, we need to respect the metric and everything according to the magic rules, because numbers, sounds, and words are related. I will not dwell on this disagreement because it is difficult to express since we should treat other topics as a basis.
When a text and a piece of music are structured like this, they form a spell. This spell, under magical correspondences, no longer acts solely by the intellectual sense and audible sound, but works spiritually by the law of sympathy. Imagine a spell as a tuning fork that, with its music, sets the strings of an instrument on the same tone in motion without touching, tuning it.
In the same way, singing and the magic formula are “understood” on a spiritual level by objects, by stars, by spirits, by nature.
Let us remember that music and words are imbued both with the energy of the magician and with the Spirit of the World (universal energy). To all this the powers of faith, dedication and consecration are added.
If the word is the manifestation of thought, then thought is a word uttered in mind. The power of words helps the propagation of idea by adding auxiliary energy. In the case of the spoken word, these auxiliary energies are the sound, the breath and the air in which it propagates (altering its energy).
Moreover, the word can be written. In this case, we are bringing thought and its energy into the material world, binding its energy into a tangible object (paper, wood, computer, etc.).
Another aspect of the written word is the evocative one: the word can be read and understood at a distance of time, regenerating the sound and the original idea, in a reverse process. The objects, the material things themselves are words – hence sounds and thoughts.
When analyzing the words around you: those spoken, sung, written, thought and those in the form of images, objects and actions. Very plausibly you will realize that they express ideas and energies that are not spiritual, often vulgar, futile and also negative and bad. You will notice that these are also the energies that fluctuate in your life and within you.
Each of us has the task of disciplining the mind, of arranging positive thoughts, words, and energies; because we all seek peace and harmony.
A break up spell chant is the most powerful and the easiest way to let a wish, a feeling and a thought take shape and become alive.
You can definitely find many different spells and magickal formulas to sing and chant out loud during a spell casting but I firmly believe that you should use them as a starting point to create your own formula. Why? Because that’s the best way to let the energy connect with you and your wishes while spreading your vibes and your magic all over the universe. Plus, it would mean you are deeply truly open to making things happen as you are giving yourself to it, your essence, and your intuition is at work.
Totems and Sigils For a Spell to Break Up a Couple
Totem and sigils for break up spells can be amazing tools to make it happen. These are like items that state to the universe, to magick, and to the flowing magick energy what you truly want, what’s your most intimate desire while it works as an attractor, a magnet to that vision you have and that you want to shape, create and manifest.
When choosing a Totem, it is necessary to research the affinities we have with animals, their earthly and spiritual qualities, their presence in the place where we live.
Initially, when you come into contact with a Totem, it is advisable to do it inside a sacred space, at least until we get enough confidence and learn to know it. We come into contact with its energies and mix them with ours.
It’s not difficult to work with totems, but you have to learn to meditate and practice everything daily. Spend time with your astral animal, learn to know it, and create your bond with it. Try to know everything about him/her and tell him/her everything, so you learn to understand yourself thoroughly and without secrets.
For some, the astral power of Totems is similar to that of the Artificial Elementals, that is, made up of thought-forms, or created by our energy.
I personally don’t use sigils for spells to break up a couple as I focus all of my energy and my intentions on the situations and the others. I often find that sigils are an excellent tool for self-protection and self-work while totems, crystals, and tarots are more my thing but, as you know, a spell should be personal and customized as per your persona and your sensations about it.
How to Make a Voodoo Doll for Break Up Spells?
Some of the break up rituals require a voodoo doll, so let’s find out how you can make one.
Voodoo dolls are often considered to be negative, but that’s not always right. We can use them not only for dark spells, but we can also use them for good as well. While dolls made for promoting positive energy aren’t dangerous, others are, so it’s important that you follow the rituals with extra care.
Here’s how to make an effective voodoo doll.
Making a voodoo doll for these spells is not that difficult, it only requires a bit of patience and an open mind. Being a voodoo item linked to that magick tradition, you should be very careful when casting voodoos break-up spells, especially if you are a beginner as it’s a powerful and complex practice.
1. Collect Materials
You don’t actually need a lot of different materials to create a doll, however, each material has its own energies and connections. The same goes for the colors of these materials.
Most used materials are paper, twigs, clay, cloth, and corn husks. Sometimes you’ll also need something to stuff your doll with.
2. Connect Your Doll With a Person
Each voodoo doll will have its own specific connection with one particular person that you’ll choose. The craft of a doll is massively reliant upon the transfer of energy – so if you want to make it work, it must have some kind of a connection with that person.
3. Build a Skeleton of Your Doll
The skeleton is a very important part of a doll. Below you’ll find 7 spells and 2 of these spells require a voodoo doll in order to take effect. So each spell has its own rules for a voodoo doll – how it should look like. We’ll mostly need white and black clothing, and simple materials like cotton, paper, and cloth.
4. Decorating Your Doll
This part isn’t as important as much as the previous part. You need to form the head, feet, and arms – that’s essential. Other parts such as eyes and hair aren’t important that much.
Some say that the more your doll looks like a person you are creating it for, the better your ritual will work. This is somewhat true, but in our case, it’s more important that you’re focused more on a ritual alone than on the decoration.
5. Prepare it for a Ritual
First, you need to name it. As you can imagine, a name should be the same as the reals person’s name. Giving it a name means that you’ll baptize it. If you have a burning incense near you, you can also purify it.
To carry out the baptism ceremony you will need to dunk your doll underwater while saying the following, as found in Aleister Crowley’s book Ritual VIII:
“I baptize you (name of the person in question) in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. In life, you are now that who I wish you to be. All that is done to you will happen to (name of the person in question) in the world as I command it. I now control the desires, dreams, and ultimate fate of (name of the person in question). Their life belongs to me. May (name of the person in question) see no pleasure or profit from their life or endeavors unless I deem it so.”
At this point, you and your doll are ready. We can proceed to break up spells.
7 Powerful Break Up Spells That Work Immediately
1. Strong Black Magic Break Up Spell
This breakup spell is one of the most powerful rituals to separate two souls. Thanks to the energy of black magic, you will have the chance to work on separating the couple you would like to see breaking up.
Being black magic break up spell is an advanced spell even if it’s simple to cast and require only a few basic ingredients.
Don’t forget that when it comes to black magic your intention is the most important thing. Focus on that and visualize what you want to achieve while casting the spell to make it happen!
- A piece of paper
- Black ink
- A black candle
- Something to carve the candle
- Meditate for a few minutes to clear your mind and relax.
- Lightly and slowly, carve the black candle from the top down with these words: “Nunc Distant in Nomine Malo”.
- Light the black candle.
- Write the names of the two people you want to separate with the black ink on a piece of paper.
- Take a piece of paper, point it towards the sky and say: “In Nomine Luciferi Ego Conteram Et Dividat Cor Tuum. Spirituum Inferi Intends Orazio Mea. Spirituum Inferi Intends Orazio Mea. Spirituum Inferni Intends Orazio Mea. Nemamen! “
- Tear off a piece of paper in two parts.
- Burn one of the two pieces with the candle flame and say: “On Oruko O Yo Korira!”
- Burn the second piece with the candle flame and recite this formula again: “On Oruko O Yo Korira!”
- Let the candle be consumed and bury the residues.
Tips: be careful while chanting to spell everything in the right way. Go as slow as you can and truly focus on each word you chant.
2. Mexican Break Up Spell With Lemon and Salt
This breakup spell is ancient and has its origins in the Mexican folk magic that has constantly used it. It can be used indifferently by men and women. Just pay close attention to the various steps. The mix of lemon and salt, with their magickal properties, is what makes it work as lemon and salt have the ability to embitter and destroy the relationship.
- A lemon
- Two strips of white paper with the names of people written with a pencil
- Cut the lemon into a cross, then insert the names into it, and a pinch of salt onto lemons. Then recite a specific sentence:
Just as salt is falling apart, love (or the friendship of) (his first name ) and (then her name) breaks down.
- At this point leave the lemon in a hidden place for a week and then throw it away preferably in running water. (The best option would be to put it in a river as it’s the best natural form of running water. If there isn’t a river nearby your casting place use your sink and tap water to wash it away and then throw it into a trash bag. Otherwise, you can get rid of these ingredients by burying them in a place you won’t come back to.)
- The salt is used to tighten up relationships between people. Lemon will help to remove the sweetness of the relationship and make it diminish over time.
Keep in mind that this ritual doesn’t work between people of the same sex.
3. 7 Day Voodoo Break Up Spell
This 7 days voodoo break up spell is very complex and it is recommended for expert witches.
What makes this spell very complex but yet very effective is the selection of ingredients and the fact that you are going to cast the spell on a daily basis for at least 7 days and up to 9 days for quicker results.
It’s very important you commit to the practice and that, once you decide to give this break up spell a try, you repeat it with the same intention and concentration every single day. If you skip a day or two you need to recast it all from the very beginning.
Difficulty: Expert Witch
Moon: it isn’t necessary to follow days and moon, but we need to consider that this is a ritual with a negative purpose, so I recommend casting this on Tuesday or Friday (the waning moon).
Time: start at 21.30 or 22.00
The ritual is repeated for 7 days or 9 days.
- A black candle
- Pictures of people that you want to break up
- Pen or black marker and one red
- A piece of paper
- A glass jar with the aluminum cap or a bottle (I don’t recommend the last one as it is difficult to fill)
- Rusty Nails 9 (rust is very important for the ruin of a relationship)
- Pins 9 (nails and pins symbolize pain and wounds in the report)
- Black pepper
- Red pepper in grains (if you cannot find red pepper in grains you can substitute this with 2 chili peppers)
- Chili pepper
- Black mustard seeds (to create problems) – (if you cannot find black mustard seeds you can use some rocks)
- Vinegar (to sour the union)
- While you can also add lemon juice or sour milk
- Black dog and black cat hair, (this is important and you need only a few. It’s necessary to trigger the fight between a couple)
- Glass chips to cut and hurt the relationship
This is the base, but if you wanted to strengthen this ritual further and succeed, find and use these things:
- Asephodelia (to make ill, evil, invocations)
- Graveyard (used against enemies)
- Cedrine herb (for separations, discords and conflicts between people.)
Light the black candle, engrave the names (name and surname) of the people you want to separate (you can use a toothpick) and between the two names engrave the word “divorce” or “separation.”
Grease the candle you with break up or other command oils.
If you don’t have them you can also:
Grease the candle with chili oil, Tabasco, and cover it with red pepper, mustard seeds, or chili. Grease from the center towards the two ends.
Your candle is ready, so light it with a match.
Writing behind the photos:
– With a red pen if you want the person to remain next to you
– With a black pen if you want to remove it
On each photo write their name and surname and on another piece of paper write down the command:
“Person X must leave a person Y” – must be written in black color.
When you finish, put a piece of paper (written in black) between the two photos (which you shouldn’t look at) and then put everything in the jar or a bottle. You can also add other witnesses inside and cover them with vinegar.
Close it tightly and start shaking the jar violently. Get angry if necessary and proceed with your command with anger and decision. As you do this, visualize this couple fighting fiercely.
Turn off the candle with your fingers. You can shake a jar whenever you need it and when you don’t, close it in a plastic bag (to suffocate the relationship) and place it behind the toilet.
Shake the jar at least two times a day.
When ritual ends, this jar must be buried in a graveyard. You can bury that jar during the day, to thank the spirits that will act for you.
If you don’t have vinegar and those pet hairs choose another spell as those are the main ingredients to make this particular spell work.
4. Manipulative Dark Break Up Spell
This dark spell still requires dog or cat hair but it’s a bit easier than the last 7 days spell. This is a great spell to manipulate people and to let love disappear between the couple you would like to separate.
Focus on your intention while casting this spell and visualize these people going separate ways. It’s very important for you to cleanse the tools and the energy of the casting place so use incense and give your witchy tools come salt bath to prepare them for this spell.
Why? Because you need the whole energy within and around you ready and set to turn the energy and shift it to manipulate the designed couple.
Difficulty: Expert Witch
- Cauldron and ladle (if you don’t have a cauldron and a ladle you can use a small pan)
- Items belonging to the people you want to separate or a piece of paper with their names
- Cat hair (preferably black)
- Dog hair (preferably black)
- Nettles (optional)
- At this point we’ll choose to act on the night of a Tuesday or Saturday which occurs in the period between the full moon and the new moon (waning moon phase).
- Once all the necessary material has been placed, it’ll be purified with a salt bath, and the room in which the ceremony will be officially fired will be abundantly incensed.
- Then the potion is prepared by introducing the ingredients into the cauldron, avoiding for its intention:
- Pouring water reiterate how water and fire are contrary and how one perishes in the presence of the other.
- Insert the hair of the cat and dog expressing that the two are opposed as a cat and dog, always in disagreement and dislike.
- Pour in oil and express that oil and water do not mix, so it is not possible for the two of them to find a point of union, of love and harmony.
- Insert the vinegar and mention that the vinegar corrodes.
- Insert the nettles saying that as the plant burns they will not have peace until your will is fulfilled.
- At this point, let the potion reach the boil and in the meantime visualize your goal or relax with the certainty of success. When you feel that the target is reached, turn off the flame. Then incense the room again.
- The filter must be bottled and poured near the places frequented by the victims. If it is not possible, pour it in two different places declaring the separation between the parts.
Once again, this is a very manipulative ritual, and it must be carried out with the appropriate precaution.
5. Easy Chanting Spell to Separate Two Lovers
This is an old fashioned chanting spell you can easily practice without any experience and fancy ingredients.
Still, your commitment to this kind of spell is absolutely important and you need to truly believe in what you are doing and what you are saying to let it happen. If you are a baby witch, this is a great place where to start spell casting to break up a couple and to explore your witchy craft.
- A pencil
- 1 black candle
- 1 sheet of paper and a pen
- On a waning moon night, take the black candle and light it with matches.
- Write the name, surname, and date of birth of the people you want to break up drawing a circle that contains all this on the sheet of paper.
- Light up the black candle and place it above the paper. Start with dropping of wax from the upper part of the circle that contains the names, until you cover the whole circle and its contents. While you are doing this, you have to imagine these two people leaving, discussing and dividing. Try to concentrate all the energy possible.
After you have finished covering the whole circle, blow on the candle to extinguish it and say the following words:”So I transferred my will,
My spell has been heard.
So I want it, so be it!”
Set the sheet of paper on fire, and leave the ashes in the air.Light the candle again and let it burn until it’s gone.
6. Voodoo Dolls Break Up Spell with Vinegar
Difficulty: AdvancedEffectiveness: 4/5Ingredients:Fabric (one black piece and one white piece)An empty bowlVinegarSalt in grainsPepper powderPure alcohol
Ritual: During a waning moon evening, take two pieces of fabric and sew two dolls to symbolize the people.
7. Onion Break Up Spell
Day: TuesdayMoon: falling moonDay: possibly of Mars (Tuesday)
Ingredients:1 black pen1 white paper1 red onion (you can use a white onion as well if you cannot find a red one)7 toothpicks
Ritual: First we cut the onion into two equal parts (that is, just break it in the middle.)
- After that we need to cut 2 strips of paperOn the first piece of paper you need to write down the name of your loved one, and on the second you need to write down the name of your rival – use a black pen for that.Place each strip on one half of the onion, and then put the two halves together.You’ll have these 2 pieces of paper in the middle of our onion, and it’s essential that these names aren’t positioned to “look at each other” so be careful when closing the whole thing. See the pic to know how to place the piece of paper! One must be carefully put on the back of the other. Make the onion adhere with the help of 7 toothpicks (check the pic below to see how to properly use the toothpicks)
- Chant out loud: “let them separate, let them fight, etc.”Bury this onion somewhere far from home and forget it. Also read:
Here’s How to Break a Couple Using Voodoo [Advanced Magick]
Final ThoughtsSeparating two people using semi-benign methods (they are never totally benign) is much more complicated, requires many sessions, and constant observation of how the situation evolves.
In this case, the only thing you can do is “instill” or increase the interest of the person you want towards you. Everything else will have to wait and take some time.You could always get an “extra-marital” relationship if this manifestation will be somehow a positive event for you and for him/her (a ‘life lesson,’ for example).
I have successfully performed these rituals several times except once; the latter was not really a sentimental situation: I obtained the ‘postponement’ of date (the event happened with a considerable delay) but not the elimination of the event itself which, over time, proved not only inevitable but also essential to improve the lives of the people involved.This type of ritualistic has proven to be highly effective in removing people who flirt with their loved ones or who try to seduce him/her.They always go away and never come back, if they are just distractions. But if one of them were actually the soul mate of the loved one, the ritual would obviously not be so useful.
It’s just a visualization. I simply imagine that the “competition” (one or more) which is surrounding the loved one suddenly stops and starts flowing further and further away from your loved one. The distance between the loved one and the ‘competition’ grows until they’re far away, and finally, they disappear on the horizon.