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Here’s How to Ask Pendulum Questions About Relationships

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Written by: Tina Caro

If you are passionate about clairvoyance and esotericism, you cannot fail to know radiesthesia… And whoever says radiesthesia, says divination! A pendulum is a small object with great power: it will be able to answer your questions precisely. Observe its movement and let yourself be guided by its advice to unveil your future and live your best life.

Like astrology or numerology, using a pendulum is a divination art that has the peculiarity of being based on science. Do you want to find out how the pendulum works and learn how to use it to answer your love questions? So how to ask your pendulum questions about relationships? Let’s find out!

What is a divination pendulum?

A divination pendulum is a small object consisting of a usually point-like mass fixed at one end by a thread or a chain of negligible mass. Oscillating, it describes movements that are interpreted to have predictions about the future and more.

Radiesthesia allows us to grasp and interpret the vibrations of our soul to answer questions about the present, past, and future. The divination pendulum represents a bridge between conscious and subconscious and is a tool of knowledge and forecasting. It is certainly useful for making future predictions, but also for finding missing objects or people.

How does it work?

Using the pendulum seems simple, but it takes time and training. When a question is asked about one’s future, it is our subconscious that responds through the circular movements of the pendulum. Clockwise and counterclockwise movements are interpreted as a positive or negative response.

Direction of SwingMeaning
Forward and BackwardYes or positive response
Side to SideNo or negative response
Circular or ClockwiseAffirmative or positive response with energy
Circular or CounterclockwiseNegative or cautionary response with energy
Still or No MovementUnclear or neutral response
Table 1: Pendulum Response Meanings

How to ask your pendulum questions about relationships?

Not being a method of divination that gives complete answers but limits itself to saying YES, NO, MAYBE (unless you use the radiesthesic tables, but that’s another area), when asking the question, you have to try to be as precise as possible, also specifying the time span.

An example: I would like to know if I will find serenity in the sentimental field.

The right question to ask might be “will I find serenity in love by the end of 2020?” while the wrong one is “will I find serenity in love?” or “will I find serenity in love soon?”

This is because the first question asks exactly what a person is looking for (love) and gives a specific time frame (by the end of the year), while the other two are too general.

The first one could say YES, but it does not necessarily happen. With the second, the answer might also be YES, but that could be in 2 years or 10 years; the concept of “soon” is relative and therefore unclear.

The question is very important in any field of divination, both with cards and with the pendulum, but above all with the latter, since it only answers dry questions, one must be as specific as possible.

How to ask your pendulum questions about relationships in 3 steps?

Here’s how to use a divination pendulum in 3 simple steps.

1. Magnetize the pendulum

When using it for the first time, it is important to magnetize the pendulum. To do this, hold it 5 cm from your hand, with your palm facing the sky. Move it back and forth, and it will begin to describe circular movements in one direction and then in the other until it stops and is charged by the energies of the body and mind.

2. Ask yes or no questions

The pendulum only answers precise questions and will always give answers by exclusion such as yes or no, true or false, far or near, black or white, etc. You will then have to ask questions going from general to particular; for example: ask if the car keys are in the house, then if they are on the ground floor, if they are in the living room, if they are behind you, if they are on the right or left.

This same procedure can be applied for any type of application.

3. Doubting an answer

The pendulum never lies, but if you are unsure of an answer given, you can ask it if it is telling the truth and, if so, ask the question and see how it goes and what the pendulum wants you to know. You should not doubt the pendulum as you should not doubt any kind of magical esoteric tool.

Give it a chance to express itself and use its information and hints to create the life you’ve always wanted, just be open to its messages.

Set a clear intention before asking the pendulum.
Create a calm and focused environment for the session.
Phrase your questions in a concise and specific manner.
Trust your intuition and interpret the responses intuitively.
Ask permission from your higher self or guides for guidance.
Table 2: Tips for Asking Pendulum Questions about Relationships

My favorite questions

  • If you want to know if your ex is coming back to you ask a question like this: Will (insert the name of your ex here) come back to me by the end of 2020?
  • Will I finally be happy in love by the end of 2020?
  • Will I meet my soulmate in 2021?
  • Will (insert name here) reciprocate my love for him in 2020?
  • Will (insert name here) be able to rekindle our romance in 2020?
  • Am I on the right path to have the love life I’ve always wanted?

How do I know if my pendulum is telling me the truth?

Well, first of all, I’ll tell you that you don’t know. And secondly, I will tell you “were you neutral towards the answer?”

The pendulum is an instrument that you can move consciously and unconsciously.

For example, you can draw a symbol on a piece of paper and give it the command: “move like this picture.”

Or even easier: when you buy a pendulum and want to establish the communication bases with it, what you do is tell it: give me a YES and give me a NO.

And the pendulum responds by making the movement corresponding to its YES and its NO.

Although in this case, you are using a conscious control (you are giving an order to the pendulum), it does not matter to you that the SI of the pendulum is a movement in one direction or another. You have no preference over the possible answer.

On the other hand, if you ask: “Am I going to win the lottery?” I can assure you that you will never get a neutral answer. Why? Because I still don’t know any person who, no matter how spiritual, doesn’t prefer the answer to be YES.

Also read:
Can a Pendulum Predict the Future? [& Step-By-Step Guide]

Do you realize how difficult it is to be neutral according to certain questions?

The moment you ask the questions from a state of absolute neutrality, emotional serenity, and detachment from the possible answer, it is easier for the answer obtained to be the closest thing to reality.

And notice that I said “the closest thing” to reality.

Because among other factors, you have to know how to ask the right questions.

As I said before, since the pendulum is a binary response system (YES / NO), we will have to adapt the questions to this way of answering. And if it is a very complex question, subdivide it into several questions.

You can also make a response diagram:

Draw a semicircle on a paper and make a series of equidistant marks on it, so that it is divided into as many parts as there are possible answers.

For each of those sections, write down an answer.

Then place the pendulum in the center of the bottom line and ask the question. Let the pendulum swing by itself until it points to one of the semicircle marks.

Also read:
Why Does my Pendulum Shakes? [Meaning Explained]

Who can use a divination pendulum?

All empathic people, that is, those who have a strong sensitivity. However, remember that the pendulum does not always give the answers you want, you need to have patience and perseverance to obtain reliable results.

Tina Caro

Tina Caro is a witch with more than 10 years of experience, a yogi, an astrologer, and a passionate supporter of all things holistic! She’s also an owner of the website Magickal Spot where she discusses a variety of her favorite topics.

Magickal Spot has helped thousands of readers worldwide, and she’s personally worked with hundreds of clients and helped them manifest desires to have a happier and more abundant life.

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