Many ask me how I discovered and got passionate about “shadow work” and what benefits it can give. But many other questions are all about shadow work being safe or dangerous. Without any further ado, let’s explore shadow work to see if shadow work is dangerous and how it can be used to live a better life.
Is shadow work dangerous?
No, shadow work isn’t dangerous. When we do shadow work, we connect with our true selves; but the question is: how you are going to use this dark, hidden side of yourself?
Let me start by saying that our shadow, even if it might sound creepy and dark, it’s not! Basically, it’s you, the true you, the one you thought you should keep silent because it was hurt, maybe it was not so polite and not always happy and balanced.
There is nothing wrong with embracing this side of yourself to get to a place of self-awareness and self-acceptance that I really think is crucial when it comes to living in a better way. How many times do we shut ourselves down because we think that a thought or an opinion would not be generally approved?
How many times do we feel angry, but we force ourselves to act nicely because it’s not polite to express this type of emotion and energy? With shadow work, it’s finally time to unveil all this. But if you do it to explore yourself in a different way if you do this to connect with yourself, there is nothing wrong or dangerous; it’s just the opposite.
But if we do shadow work to use our dark side to generate hate over someone, to practice black magic or to harm someone, yes, it can be dangerous; it can lead us to negativity, energetic drains, and similar things. In order to keep things safe and positive, you should live shadow work considering it as a chance to embark on a spiritual journey, respecting your true self but also others.
Is shadow work dark?
First, let me say that the image aroused by the word “shadow” can be negative; it can recall something threatening and dangerous. In reality, the so-called “shadow” is nothing but the hidden part of our personality, the one that is still unknown to our awareness.
“Shadow” is also the classic name used by Carl Jung, the first psychologist to go into this area and to understand how our suppressed part, that is, our unconsciousness, works. It is, therefore, in some way, a name with historical connotation.
Why should I get to know my whole self?
Shadow work helps you connect with yourself in a deeper way, acknowledging your darkness and your most hidden emotions, and it’s so important to really accept and embrace yourself. How can shadow work help you live a better life?
- Better relationships: it helps you see more clearly. We become more complete, human, and whole. When we are able to accept everything inside us, it is easier to accept others. As a result, other people’s behavior no longer upsets us so easily, which also leads to better communication with our partners, family, friends, and work colleagues.
- Improvement of energy and physical health: dragging an invisible bag full of things behind us is exhausting. It is exhausting work to continually repress and crush all parts of ourselves that we do not want to face in our adulthood. Fatigue and lethargy can peep through to physical pain and illness. With the work of integrating our disowned parts, we release a huge reservoir of energy that we are unconsciously investing to protect ourselves. It is certainly a job that can improve our physical, mental, and emotional health. Working in the shadows can bring us inner strength and a greater sense of balance, making us better equipped to face the challenges of life.
- Greater creativity: one of the main advantages of this research is that it unlocks our creative potential, a process that requires the integration of ourselves in order to be fully activated.
In my experience, since I started my spiritual magickal journey, I have found myself having a greater understanding of how my emotions and my reactions to everything that happens to my work. This allowed me to relax and to let go of the need for control that I often had.
I understood why I have encountered so many challenges in my relationships, and now I can go further, towards something new. Recovering all the energy that was previously unconsciously wasted in controlling what I did not want to see, or dispersed in situations external to me, gave me inspiration and creativity.
Is it for me?
No special knowledge is needed to benefit from this inner research work. It is not required to get used to meditation. What is needed is the desire to get involved, to discover unexpected things, and to accept some challenges.
I find it a very useful tool to investigate what lies behind emotions such as anger, fear, shame, loneliness, envy, and jealousy, which many people constantly experience in their lives. Even the difficulties in relationships can be understood and improved, as well as the feeling of being blocked and powerless in the face of the events that life brings us.
This is the real question you should ask yourself and that answer is the one you need to understand if you are ready to fully immerse into shadow work and its benefits and gifts.
If you are still not convinced about shadow work and its benefits, it might mean you are not ready to explore the dark side of yourself, so don’t rush things and wait until the right moment to unveil your hidden self comes.
This is so important to really live shadow work as a process, a journey, in a healthy positive way.