Goddess Self-Esteem and Self-Love Ritual (DIY Cast-Along)

This powerful ritual is designed to reconnect you with your inner strength and self-worth.

Perfect for moments when your self-esteem feels depleted or when you feel unseen and undervalued, it taps into the divine energy of the Goddess to uplift and transform.

Due to the complexity and number of ingredients, this spell is recommended for experienced practitioners. If you’re new to spellwork, consider building confidence with simpler rituals before attempting this one.

How Can This Ritual Help?

• To boost self-esteem and self-love.
• To gain recognition from others and reclaim your confidence.
• To invite the Goddess’s energy to guide and support you.

Best Time to Cast it

Day: Monday

Moon Phase: Waxing Crescent

What You’ll Need

• Two white candles: One for the Goddess and one to represent yourself.
• Candle holder
• Parchment paper
• Golden and silver glitter
• Olive oil
• Incense mix: Verbena, lavender, bay leaf, cinnamon, and rose petals.
• Pestle and mortar
• Bergamot essential oil (optional, for mixing incense).
• Heat-resistant saucer
• Charcoal tablets
• Offerings: These could include flowers, fruits, or items meaningful to you.

Step-by-Step Guide

Preparation

Choose a calm, undisturbed space.

Gather all your materials and purify them using your preferred method (e.g., smoke cleansing or sprinkling saltwater).

Prepare your altar with the Goddess’s candle and your ritual tools.

Open Your Circle

Cast a protective circle, call the directions, and invite the Great Mother to join you.

Set Your Intention

Light the Goddess candle and declare the purpose of your ritual, such as

“To reclaim my self-worth and love myself fully.”

Prepare Your Candle

Take the second candle and write your name on it using a pen. Light it.

Anoint it with olive oil, focusing on your intention.

Roll the candle in golden and silver glitter until it’s fully coated.

Create the Incense

Add all incense ingredients (verbena, lavender, bay leaf, cinnamon, and rose petals) into the mortar in equal parts.

Grind the mixture into a fine powder, infusing it with your energy and focus. Visualize the bitterness leaving your life and being replaced with joy and serenity.

Burn the Incense

Light a charcoal tablet in a heatproof saucer. Sprinkle a pinch of incense onto the burning charcoal.

Let the fragrant smoke envelop you. Visualize yourself surrounded by radiant energy, confidence, and divine love.

Close the Ritual

Thank the Goddess for her guidance and energy.

Dismiss the elements and close your circle.

Frequently Asked Questions

What to Do Next

Your Candle: Extinguish the candle representing yourself and save it for future rituals.

Goddess Candle: Let the Goddess’s candle burn completely. Bury its remnants and the offerings in healthy soil, such as in your garden or another sacred space.

Repeating the Ritual

You can repeat this ritual as often as needed, especially during moments of self-doubt or low energy. Simply relight your personal candle and follow the steps.

Can I use other herbs for the incense?

Yes, you can adjust the incense blend to include herbs that resonate with you. Just ensure they align with love, confidence, and self-esteem energy.

What if I don’t have all the ingredients?

While each ingredient plays a role, focus on the essential ones: candles, olive oil, and an incense blend. Simplicity with strong intent is better than skipping the ritual.

Can beginners perform this ritual?

This ritual is designed for experienced practitioners due to its complexity. Beginners are encouraged to practice simpler self-love rituals first.

What should I do with the offerings?

Bury the offerings along with the Goddess candle’s remnants in healthy soil, symbolizing gratitude and returning energy to the earth.

Can I perform the ritual on a different moon phase?

The Waxing Crescent Moon is ideal for attracting energy, but you can adapt the timing based on your intuition and circumstances.

 How soon will I see results?

Results vary depending on your focus and energy alignment. Some may feel an immediate shift, while others notice gradual changes over time.

Conclusion

The Goddess Self-Esteem and Self-Love Ritual is a deeply transformative practice designed to help you reconnect with your inner light and divine essence.

By invoking the Goddess and working with sacred elements, this ritual allows you to shed feelings of invisibility or inadequacy, replacing them with empowerment, self-recognition, and joy.

Each step of the ritual strengthens your bond with the Great Mother, reminding you that you are a vessel of love and wisdom.

Repeat this ritual whenever you feel the need to realign with your true self, and let the Goddess’s energy guide you toward confidence and self-appreciation.