Work this simple candle magic love spell to draw romance and attraction energy into your life.
Even if you’re brand new to witchcraft, this is one anyone can do!
Gather a bouquet of fresh roses and get ready for your next great love.
Contents
Things You Will Need

All the spell items on this list radiate with the magic of love and attraction.
Roses
This classic love spell ingredient appears in rituals for romance dating back to ancient Rome.
Sacred to the love goddess, Aphrodite, its delicate petals and intoxicating aroma inspire feelings of infatuation and intrigue.
White or Red Candle
In color magic, red represents passion and lust. Or, if you prefer, a white candle works well as an all-purpose spell candle.
Vanilla Essential Oil
The heady, aromatic fragrance of vanilla essential oil promotes feelings of warmth, kindness, and tenderheartedness.
Spell Timing
Timing a spell according to the moon phase or energy of the day helps to focus your intentions and set the magic off in the right direction.
Consider performing this spell during the waxing or full moon.
Or, think creatively and make this spell a special way to honor Valentine’s day.
Step 1
Gather your spell components. Don’t forget matches or a lighter.
Find a peaceful space in your home or (even better) outdoors.
Set up a small altar with the roses, the candle, and the vanilla oil.
Cast a circle any way you like.
Step 2
Anoint the candle with vanilla oil. If you like, you can use the oil to draw symbols of love on the candle, such as a heart or the infinity symbol (which represents the eternal nature of love).
As you anoint the candle, quietly focus your intentions.
Step 3
Place the candle on the altar.
Surround it with roses.
Step 4
Light the candle. Spend some time thinking about the meaning of love, and how you hope it to manifest in your life.
Close your eyes and picture yourself meeting the ideal partner. Try to set aside any shallow or preconceived notions of what that looks like (age, appearance, social status, ect).
Instead, express to the universe (or a goddess you are devoted to, or whatever higher power you believe in) that you are open to and ready to receive a partner that is best suited to your path in this life.
Step 5
Extinguish the candle and close the circle.
Leave the candle surrounded by roses in a quiet space in your home.
Over the next moon cycle, observe the roses as they fade and dry. Acknowledge in your heart and mind that all things are temporary, including this current state of solitude.
Remember to enjoy the sacredness of being alone even as you look forward to entering a new relationship.
Periodically add a few drops of vanilla essential oil to the dried roses, and light the candle to meditate on the nature of love.
Manifesting Love
Manifesting love in your life using your magical skills is fun and inspiring! Check out some of these other ideas to enrich and support the materialization of romance.
Aphrodite Ritual Bath for Attraction
Aphrodite: 9 Facts About the Greek Goddess of Love
Valentine’s Day Romance & Love Tarot Spell

Sources & References
Claims Based on Documented Sources
- Roses classic love spell ingredient dating to ancient Rome: Documented in spell tradition history
- Roses sacred to Aphrodite, love goddess: Documented in goddess correspondence
- Rose petals inspire infatuation/intrigue: Documented in herbal properties
- Red candle represents passion/lust: Documented in color magic correspondence
- White candle as all-purpose spell candle: Documented in candle magic practice
- Vanilla essential oil promotes warmth/kindness: Documented in aromatherapy/herbal properties
- Vanilla tenderheartedness: Documented in herbal correspondence
- Spell timing by moon phase: Documented in lunar magic tradition
- Waxing moon for spell work: Documented in lunar correspondence
- Full moon for spell work: Documented in lunar magic practice
- Valentine’s Day as spell timing: Documented in seasonal magic tradition
- Circle casting for sacred space: Documented in witchcraft practice
- Anointing candles with oil: Documented in candle magic
- Heart symbol for love: Documented in symbolic magic
- Infinity symbol for eternal love: Documented in modern witchcraft
- Visualizing ideal partner: Documented in manifestation practice
- Releasing preconceived notions in love: Documented in manifestation philosophy
- Expressing openness to universe/goddess: Documented in spiritual practice
- Rose fading as temporality reminder: Documented in symbolic contemplation
- Rose sacredness in solitude: Documented in meditation practice
Claims Based on Personal Practice & Experience
- 20+ years modern pagan community experience (Lumina Indigo)
- Professional tarot reader, kitchen witch expertise (Lumina Indigo)
- Personal spell crafting and recommendations (Lumina Indigo)
- Reviewed by Tina Caro
Recommended Reading
- Love spell ingredients and correspondences
- Candle magic techniques and anointing
- Rose symbolism and magical uses
- Vanilla essential oil properties
- Lunar timing for spell work
- Circle casting methods
- Manifestation and visualization practices
- Color magic for love and attraction
- Goddess correspondence (Aphrodite)
About the Author
Written by Lumina Indigo (Moody Moons founder, est. 2012), specializing in research on modern spirituality. With 20+ years pagan community experience, Lumina is a professional tarot reader and kitchen witch. Reviewed by Tina Caro.
Note
Beginner-friendly love spell drawing romance/attraction energy. Materials: fresh roses (ancient Roman love ingredient, sacred to Aphrodite), red or white candle (passion/all-purpose), vanilla essential oil (warmth, kindness). Timing: waxing/full moon or Valentine’s Day. Steps: gather components in peaceful space; cast circle; anoint candle with oil, draw heart or infinity symbols; place candle on altar surrounded by roses; light candle, visualize ideal partner without judgment; release preconceived notions, express openness to universe; extinguish candle, close circle. Observe roses fade over moon cycle as reminder of temporality and solitude’s sacredness while awaiting love.





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