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DIY Obsession Spells: Ways to Deepen Someone’s Focus on You

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Written by: Tina Caro

Practitioner of Witchcraft & Spiritual Arts with 10+ years of hands-on experience in spellcasting, crystal work, astrology, tarot, and ritual practice. Tina brings evidence-based traditional practices, cultural research, and real-world client experience to every article.

Expertise: Spellcraft, Crystal Healing, Astrology, Deities

Experience: 1000+ Private Clients, Award-Winning Author

Recognition: Global Excellence Award in Witchcraft Education

Platform: Founder of Magickal Spot

Have you ever desired to become the center of someone’s world, occupying their thoughts and emotions completely? Whether you seek a romantic connection, deeper intimacy, or an irresistible allure, obsession magic can help intensify your presence in someone’s mind and heart.

These methods amplify attraction and focus energy toward making you unforgettable. As with all magical workings, intention and care are essential.

These techniques should come from a place of respect and love rather than manipulation. Remember, obsession spells amplify emotions and can lead to intense connections—so be prepared for the energy they bring!

If you’re ready to channel your magic and become someone’s irresistible thought, explore these powerful rituals and tips designed to strengthen bonds and foster deep emotional focus.

The magick of obsession spell

Obsession spells are powerful rituals designed to enhance emotional connections, draw attention, and strengthen bonds in relationships. Each spell uses symbolic tools and magical energies to manifest love and devotion in unique ways.

Here are spells and easy-to-try ways to harness obsession magic effectively:

Obsession Spell with Balls of Cotton

This simple yet effective ritual uses a box, cotton balls, and a candle to create a lasting connection between you and your partner.

Safely storing your shared intention strengthens commitment and encourages loyalty.

View the DIY Step-by-Step process here:

https://magickalspot.com/obsession-spell-with-balls-of-cotton/

Sugar Obsession Spell

Ideal for rekindling lost love, this beginner-friendly spell uses candles, sugar, and a photo to invite your ex back into your life, reigniting the spark of your past relationship.

These spells channel your intention and focus, helping you align your desires with the energies of love and attraction.

View the DIY Step-by-Step process here:

https://magickalspot.com/sugar-obsession-spell-diy-cast-along/

Undo Obsession Spell

This is a simple spell to undo an obsession – yours or someone else’s.

Difficulty: Intermediate
Effectiveness: 4/5

Things you need

  • Witness (hair, nails, photos, hair, saliva, a piece of clothing, anything personal of the victim or yourself)
  • Your wand
  • Paper
  • Pen or pencil
  • Five red candles
  • A heat-proof dish or your cauldron
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How it’s done

On a piece of paper, write the reasons why you want to break the bond or obsession you no longer want to have.

Describe everything in detail, reasons, and emotions that you or other obsessed no longer want to have.

Then take the wand and place it in the middle of the sheet and fold it three times, then put the cauldron in the middle, place the folded sheet with the witnesses.

Place the five red candles in a circle, light a sheet of paper, and say:

“May the obsession go away from me / you.
My / your desire for me / you is painful
and with this fire I burn this burning desire
close the holy door of love and passion behind me”

You can use different (but similar) words.

The important thing is to put intensity and conviction while saying these words.

Once the “magic” formula has been spoken a few times, and the paper is completely burned down, blow on the candles so that the spell is completed.

Also read:
Here’s How to Undo a Love Spell You Cast


Did You Know?

I was honored when I was recently asked by Court TV producers to consult on a case.

You can view the clip below. This case is a great example of why I do not cast any spells that have harmful intentions. As a Professional Spellcaster, I work with clients from all over the world and it’s important to me to remain grounded and stay ‘in the light’ so that I can help as many people as possible.

Casting your own magic spells takes skill and patience and isn’t recommended in most cases. I provide these “do it yourself” spells for educational purposes, but it is strongly recommended that you consult an experienced spell caster such as myself and allow me to do the work for you.

This way you know it’s being done by someone experienced and knowledgeable and I’m also always here to answer questions about your casting and provide follow-up at no additional charge.

Black Magic Obsession Spell Casting

Black Magic Obsession Spell Casting

The Black Magic Obsession Spell Casting targets a specific person who will become obsessed with you.

This is a powerful spell casting so it shouldn’t be taken lightly.

What you can expect from me:

  • Private and personalized approach
  • Casting done in less than 24h
  • Only the best ingredients & tools
  • Free consultations before & after spell casting

Customer’s testimonial:

obsession spell testimonial by MagickalSpot

I have helped hundreds of clients over the years, and I’d love to work with you as well.


Additional ways to amplify emotional focus

Besides spells, there are other magical techniques you can use to keep someone obsessively thinking about you. These practices are simple yet incredibly effective:

Light a Red or Black Candle

Red symbolizes passion and desire, while black enhances focus and deepens intensity. I love a black one but it’s a personal choice!

Light a candle to draw the person’s thoughts to you.

As the flame burns, picture them unable to resist thinking about you.

Chant affirmations for obsessive thoughts

Words carry immense power, and affirmations can help focus your energy.

Try saying:

“You cannot resist thinking of me.” “Your thoughts are consumed by me.”

Repeat these affirmations daily, letting their energy resonate and manifest in the person’s mind.

Use Crystals to Focus Intensity

Crystals like garnet, obsidian, and carnelian are powerful tools for passion and focus.

Carry them with you, meditate on them while visualizing your desired outcome, or place them under your pillow to amplify the connection.

Draw Runes for Desire

Runes like Wunjo (joy) and Ehwaz (partnership) can focus and strengthen emotional bonds.

Draw these runes on a piece of paper or carve them into a candle. Focus on your intention as you use them in your ritual.

Use Tarot Cards for Emotional Focus

Select cards like The Devil (obsession), The Lovers (passion), or The Knight of Cups (romantic pursuit).

Create an altar with these cards and a candle. Meditate on their energy and your connection to the person.

Use perfume

Choose a perfume that means seduction and obsession to you and spray it with the intention of visualizing the person you want to think about you obsessively, noticing the smell and coming to you.

Craft a Personal Obsession Sigil

Create a sigil that represents your desire for the person to think obsessively about you. Activate it with a ritual or visualization, then place it somewhere significant, like under your pillow or in a space they frequent.

Raise Your Vibration

Engage in activities that make you feel joyful and authentic, as higher vibrations naturally attract people. This is a wonderful way to attract that person with your unique energy and personality. Do anyhting you love and that spark joy.

From going out for a walk, reading a book, spending time relaxing and so on.  To me, reconnecting with nature with a day on the mountain exploring nature is the best way to raise my vibrations. Choose yours!

Conclusion

Obsession magic is an art of intention and passion. Use these DIY techniques to channel your energy and deepen someone’s focus on you. Always approach such practices with mindfulness, ensuring your intentions are respectful and pure. The universe has a way of amplifying the energy you send out, so align yourself with love, confidence, and sincerity.

Explore these magical methods, and watch your presence become irresistible. Let your intuition guide you to the practices that resonate most, and trust in the power of your magic to make it happen.


Sources & References

Claims Based on Documented Sources

  • Candle magic foundations and the role of intention, visualization, and ritual in witchcraft: Cunningham, Scott. The Complete Book of Incense, Oils & Brews (1989); Starhawk. The Spiral Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Goddess (1979)
  • Red candle symbolism for passion and desire: Cunningham, Scott. The Complete Book of Incense, Oils & Brews (1989). Covers candle colors and their magical correspondences in depth.
  • Black candle symbolism for focus and intensity: Contemporary witchcraft and candle magic traditions
  • Garnet properties for passion and focus: Crystal healing and metaphysical traditions widely referenced in modern witchcraft literature
  • Obsidian for grounding and intention: Contemporary crystal healing practices
  • Carnelian for passion and emotional connection: Traditional crystal healing correspondences
  • Rune meanings including Wunjo (joy) and Ehwaz (partnership): Elder Futhark rune traditions as documented in witchcraft texts
  • Tarot symbolism including The Devil (obsession), The Lovers (passion), and The Knight of Cups (romantic pursuit): Traditional tarot correspondences and meaning
  • Sigil craft for intention-setting and personal empowerment: Starhawk. The Spiral Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Goddess (1979). Foundational text on ritual work and energy focus.
  • Affirmations and words as magical tools for manifestation: Contemporary witchcraft practice traditions
  • Visualization and meditation for deepening emotional bonds: Starhawk. The Spiral Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Goddess (1979)
  • Perfume and scent as tools for magical intention: Cunningham, Scott. The Complete Book of Incense, Oils & Brews (1989)
  • Vibration and energy alignment as foundational magical principles: Contemporary witchcraft and law of attraction traditions

Claims Based on Personal Practice & Experience

  • Effectiveness of the Obsession Spell with Balls of Cotton for creating lasting connection: (10+ years spellcasting experience, 1000+ clients worked with)
  • Effectiveness of the Sugar Obsession Spell for rekindling lost love: (Professional spellcasting practice and client outcomes)
  • How cotton balls safely store shared intention for commitment and loyalty: (10+ years professional practice with materials and containers)
  • The Undo Obsession Spell for breaking unwanted bonds: (10+ years professional spellcasting experience, intermediate-level results)
  • How red and black candles draw someone’s thoughts toward you: (10+ years client experience, thousands of cases)
  • Visualization effectiveness while candle flames burn for manifesting thoughts: (Professional candle magic and visualization practice)
  • Power of daily affirmation chanting for obsessive focus: (10+ years professional affirmation magic practice)
  • Crystal placement under pillows for amplifying emotional connections: (Professional crystal magic experience, client feedback)
  • How runes carved into candles strengthen emotional bonds: (10+ years professional rune work practice)
  • Tarot card altar placement for meditation and emotional focus: (Professional divination practice, client results)
  • Using perfume with visualization for enhanced magical intention: (Professional aromatherapy and witchcraft integration practice)
  • How to activate and place obsession sigils for maximum effect: (10+ years professional sigil magic practice)
  • Vibration-raising activities and their natural attraction effect: (10+ years professional practice, client feedback)
  • Mountain and nature activities as personal vibration-raising techniques: (Professional holistic practice experience)
  • Individual variations in spell manifestation timelines and intensity: (Professional experience with diverse client base)
  • The importance of mindful, respectful intentions in obsession magic: (10+ years professional spellcasting practice)
  • Results from professional Black Magic Obsession Spell Casting: (Professional spellcasting service outcomes, hundreds of clients)

Recommended Reading on Passion Magic & Emotional Focus

  • Cunningham, Scott. Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner (1988). Llewellyn Publications.
  • Cunningham, Scott. The Complete Book of Incense, Oils & Brews (1989). Llewellyn Publications.
  • Starhawk. The Spiral Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Goddess (1979). Harper & Row.
  • Lipp, Deborah. The Way of Four: Create Elemental Balance & Harmony (2006). Llewellyn Publications.

Note

This article combines documented witchcraft traditions, magical correspondences, and crystal/herbal properties with Tina Caro’s 10+ years of professional spellcasting experience, crystal work, astrology, and ritual practice. Claims grounded in published sources and traditional witchcraft practices are cited; claims based on client outcomes, personal professional experience, and real-world spell effectiveness are labeled as such for full transparency. All recommendations, effectiveness ratings, and technique variations are drawn from real-world results with 1000+ private clients worked with over the author’s professional career.

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Tina Caro

Tina Caro is a witch with more than 10 years of experience, a yogi, an astrologer, and a passionate supporter of all things holistic! She’s also an owner of the website Magickal Spot where she discusses a variety of her favorite topics.

Magickal Spot has helped thousands of readers worldwide, and she’s personally worked with hundreds of clients and helped them manifest desires to have a happier and more abundant life.

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